Everything Happens for a REASON!

Yeah... thats right... everything happens for a reason...!! At times, we dont think that way or agree with this.... but I have started believing in it... whtever is best for u... for ur future... or for ur personal development... it will happen... No matter wht u do... how many times u ensure ke yar ab yeh nahin hoga... laikin phir bhi hota hai...!!

Its just like, its written in golden words in ur fate... and no matter how many times u try to erase it... all ur efforts are to no vain!!

Wherever u r...whtever u r doing... and whtever ur plans are... whenever that thing is destined to happen, it will happen... :( I feel really bad about it at times...!! U know the acceptance factor...!! Oh shit... thats really bad in me... and I dont want to accept some of the changes... but later I think... I feel that its best for me to accept it!! :

WHY?? I dont know... I keep on staring at the close door... no matter how many times I say to myself... may be its for my better... may be there is something good for me.. but yet, again... I am looking at that closed door...!!

Later, I laugh at myself... for acting like a child... but I do want to have an outlet to whtever I am feeling... :S n who to trust... and who to share with... alot of people take me wrong...or dont accept my point of view... hence, better to keep my mouth shut..!! Arrrrrrrrrrrgh... y am i writing this... I dont know.. but... (another outlet may be...)

The bridge across forever

Here is something which I have recently read... and I totally agree with it and like the way it is communicated...



" When we listen to somebody's answers, we're not really listening to the somebody, are we? We're listening to ourselves while they talk; its ourselves says this part's true and this part's crazy and that part's true again. Thats the fun of listening. The fun of saying is to be as little wrong as we know how to be."

Courtesy: Bridge across forever by Richard Bach


Hmmph... thats interesting I didnt know that it is the writer's self history.... : Sorry, missed that detail now that I am almost through with the book.

The extract which I have just written is something which I felt that it is worth saving, something which is beautifully said and written. Conveys the whole msg completely and fully.

And it is so true...that when we are listening, we are thinking in the same speed and in the same tempo...thinking whats true? whts false? whats crazy? whats serious? and whts outrageous...?
I have this habbit dunno whether others have the same habbit or not..

gotta rush..

Hope

Do You Still Have Hope

If you can look at the sunset and smile,

then you still have hope...

If you can find beauty in the colors of a small flower,

then you still have hope...

If you can find pleasure in the movement of a butterfly,

then you still have hope...

If the smile of a child can still warm your heart,

then you still have hope...

If you can see the good in other people,

then you still have hope...

If the rain breaking on a roof top can still lull you to sleep,

then you still have hope...

If the sight of a rainbow still makes you stop and stare in wonder,

then you still have hope...

If the soft fur of a favored pet still feels pleasant under your fingertips,

then you still have hope...

If you meet new people with a trace of excitement and optimism,

then you still have hope...

If you give people the benefit of a doubt,

then you still have hope...

If you still offer your hand in friendship to others that have touched your life,

then you still have hope...

If receiving an unexpected card or letter still brings a pleasant surprise,

then you still have hope...

If the suffering of others still fills you with pain and frustration,

then you still have hope...

If you refuse to let a friendship die,

or accept that it must end,

then you still have hope...

If you look forward to a time or place of quiet and reflection,

then you still have hope...

If you still buy the ornaments,

put up the Christmas tree or cook the turkey,

then you still have hope...

If you still watch love stories or want the endings to be happy,

then you still have hope...

If you can look to the past and smile,

then you still have hope....

If, when faced with the bad, when told everything is futile,

you can still look up and end the conversation with the phrase...

yeah....BUT..

Then you still have hope...

Hope is such a marvelous thing.

It bends, it twists, it sometimes hides, but rarely does it break...

It sustains us when nothing else can...

It gives us reason to continue and courage to move ahead,

when we tell ourselves we'd rather give in...

Hope puts a smile on our face when the heart cannot manage...

Hope puts our feet on the path when our eyes cannot see it...

Hope moves us to act when our souls are confused of the direction....

Hope is a wonderful thing, something to be cherished and nurtured,

and something that will refresh us in return...

And it can be found in each of us,

and it can bring light into the darkest of places...

Never lose hope...

just to be happy...

So stop waiting until you finish school,
until you go back to school,
until you lose ten pounds,
until you gain ten pounds,
until you have kids,
until your kids leave the house,
until you start work,
until you retire,
until you get married,
until you get divorced,
until Friday night,
until Sunday morning,
until you get a new car or home,
until your car or home is paid off,
until spring,
until summer,
until fall,
until winter,
until you are off welfare,
until the first or fifteenth,
until your song comes on,
until you've had a drink,
until you've sobered up,
until you die,
until you are born again
to decide that there is no better time than
right now to be happy...

Author Unknown

Everyday is a new day!!

Well, its true... everyday is a new day!! With new dreams... new wishes... new highs and new lows... Obviously, the master plan is the same... but there is something fresh everyday!!

May be one day you feel like having orange juice rather than the same old cup of tea...!! Or may be one day you want to go to work via a different route... may be one day U feel like dressing up a little bit more... with a bit of a fresh look...

Or may be one day... out of the blue moon U feel like catching up with ur old buddies... n think of old times.. the shararteinh u did... or may be something U just missed doing with them...

Well, there is something fresh!!

"Finish every day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some
blunders and absurdities no doubt have crept in; forget them as soon as you can.
Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to
be cumbered with your old nonsense. This day is all that is good and fair. It is
too dear, with its hopes and invitations, to waste a moment on
yesterdays."
Ralph Waldo Emerson
American Poet

Yeah, thats another food for thought...!! I dont even think at the end of the day what I have accomplished... what blunders I did.... How I irritated one of my friends... how rude I was to one person... well, I think that tomorrow is a new day... I will overcome it... by not doing the same blunder again, or may be say some sweet things to my friends... and let them know that I didnt mean to hurt them... or may be... let them hurt me in turn... so that they are over with that grudge inside them... :D Why not!?? I think this is the best way....

Start a new day with a fresh thought... a bit of a new goal inside u!! A quote or a song... dedicated to this fresh day!! Sing a song...!! clap your hands, chnage ur mood... smile to stupid thoughts... think aloud... be nice to everyone...!! n if someone says a rude remark to you!! Laugh out loud...!! n be over with it!!

Kal ho nah ho...

Well, I dont know at times I think that we have just this life... and time is so short, we dont know whats gonna happen the next moment.... life is short and we should do everything in this life only... all we can do... make the most of our time...

Who knows kal ho nah ho...!!???

Right... at times I wonder who cares if anyone has done something bad... or says bad things about u... or has bad opinions about u!! U do whatever u wanna do... f*ck the world... Talk to anyone u wanna talk... eat the food u like, do whtever u wanna do... like, others cares whether U r hurt by their actions... Nobody gives a shirt how u r feeling... wht are u thinking when someone is mocking U... or passing comments on u! When u do the same with that person... well, that person gets so irritated... I have this satisfaction ahhh... now he/she gets / understands how I feel... when he/she is mocking me or passing comments on me... :P lolz... At that time frame, I just think of my own satisfaction... the inner smile which I have...

Well, I am like yaar... meray pass bas yehi ek pal hai... jeenay keh hainh yeh char din... phir tou marna hi hai... I dont mean to say... ke go out of limits... well, U can do things without going off limits... :D hahaha... a bit of fun in life is life adding spice to food... n it tastes nice with it... and without it .... its all phekha seetha...!! N pheekha seetha khana is not at all fun!! :P

Life main kuch masta hona mangta... ;)

Am I aiming too high??

Sometimes, I just wonder am I aiming too high... or hoping for soo many things to happen... or just waiting for hundreds of thousands of miracles to happen??

Well, you should dream big thats what I have heard... bcoz when you dream big you achieve 50% of what you are dreaming of...

Things are changing... I am getting whatever I just dreamt of having but still... why is there a feeling that I have nothing in comparison to others... or I am still at the same place where I was and others have just got whatever they wanted to achieve... or were just thinking of having...

At times, I think I am running in a marathon race and consecutively I am losing... either my pace is really slow or others are running too fast that I am unable to catch up with them?? :(

No matter what I think... there is a feeling of dejection... a feeling that everything comes slow to me... that my FATE is somehow really slow... or may be its not just yet the right time that I have / get whatever I should have!

Ne ways I have faith in Allah... and inshallah! I will get whatever I want to have for me and for my family!!

I am still hoping for the miracles to happen... oh, yesh, I do belive in them, things have happened which were completely unexpected... hence, they shall happen now tooo!!! :D

Yet another day!

Well, yet another day...

6:34 a.m. : My eyes just opened: "Oh my god, I am late again... I was supposed to wake up mommy...." I see light out... streaming in from under the door... a relief, mommy is up!!

6:45 a.m.: I am out of the room... running around the house, rushing to the washroom, kitchen for the tea and so many other things which I have been doing early in the morning...

7:00 a.m.: Rushing to the washroom to get ready... so that my two other sisters (one elder and one younger) can use the washroom.

7:30 a.m.: I am out waking up my sisters...

7:45 a.m.: I again rush to the kitchen, tea and milk...

8:00 a.m.: I am ready to rush to the office...

8:30 a.m.: I am out of the house...

These days... Oh my God! there is so much rush at Shahrah-e-Faisal... Driving tension... Have to look for the motorcycle walas... who clog here n there around the car just like mosquitoes.

my sister, fatima... she is always shouting at me.. that we aint in a hurry...and I keep explaining to her that I am driving controlled...

The rest shall come laters... will see what's new at office... what are the new jokes today!!

Catcha!