Well, this is the lesson which I have learn the hard way... Yesterday, was a very difficult day for me... Like always, it was a busy morning with me, the previous day Adeel (my sub) did not show up, supposedly, he had stomach ache.... Khair, he messaged me again that he wont be able to make it. I was really pissed... really really pissed... the ATM recon has been delayed for over a week now and it must be updated... How easy it is for ppl to say that they will handle... how can they handle it... I am the one who is responsible and I will be the one questioned... the others will not be asked about it...!!
Khair, I messaged him once... then, again his bhashan started main kabhi kabhi tou beemar parta hunh!! etc etc... I was again pissed... I called him up.... Adeel beta, kaam aisa nahin hota... fine I accept that I shouted at him too....!! But the thing is that he was wrong and I was right...!! I want to get that deliverable and he has his own grievances... somehow I will try and put his smses here on the blog too...!!
Khair, after I hung up...he messaged me... Ke mujhe ABid sir ka number dainh... main aap ki complain karonga... aapnay aaj mujhse bad tameezi kie...!!
I am still confused... All I did was... mention... Adeel how do U expect everything to be updated in one day??? Matlab how convenient it is for some ppl...!! Just to day... that they are not feeling well..
Well, for me nothing is impossible... I went to office...started my work... and I am proud of myself...that I did it... ALL ALONE!! Not the ATM Recon... but today, if he comes back... I am going to make sure he updates it... to the DOT!!
Well, I have learned another lesson... that if there is a "communication gap", then, its really difficult for two ppl to understand.... what one wants and what the other person is feeling!!
Is he poissed that I am his boss / supervisor??? Really, I started off at a friendly zone... seriously, I went out of my way... Well, I usually do not mention to others how I am feeling... but I am dissappointed... I am really really dissappointed...!! And now I understand what other supervisors go thru... dealing with ppl... who take things to their darn a** Oh my... I should control my language... but this is the limit... Qasam se... I am shocked... !!
Khair, for now... I myself will sit down and ask... what are his feelings??? How is he feeling...?? Why such retaliation all of a sudden... !!?? What have I done... I am a good boss... but all what I need is the work done!! :D Bus... Yes, personally I have no issues with him... but I wont go onto my knees and get the work done..!! :P If he can have ego...so can I!!!!!!!!
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